Today I would like to share on the topic of soul ties vs. soul mates.
Relationships are very difficult to come by and to keep. Finding the right person can be extremely challenging. There are so many factors that need to neatly line up in that single package which we hope will bring us eternal companionship and joy. In our search for that perfect someone however, we may invariably leave ourselves open to certain things that may take a strong hold of us for a long time.
Physical intimacy is something that is natural in our relationships with the opposite sex. However it is important to be careful about the number of sexual partners we have. This is because we pick up certain attributes from our partners. Those attributes can either be positive or negative but the truth is, you have no control of what part of their soul is left with you. You can never know a person completely, but you should still ensure that there is a level of care and mindfulness of whom or what you are allowing to not only enter you but also have access to your soul.
Instead of creating a limitless number of soul ties by sleeping with many people, focus on finding a soul mate. A soul mate is not your perfect fit; a true soul mate is a mirror. The person who shows you everything that is holding you back. The person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you will ever meet; because they will enrich your life on every level; spiritually, mentally and physically.
Every person you sleep with leaves a part of himself or herself with you. Truth be told some of you may be walking around lifeless confused and unhappy and not even know why, but constantly wondering why you are the way they are now. Please remember sex does more to the body than your eyes can see.
Only after marriage will God recognize a sexual covenant. Before this all sexual encounters are just creating soul ties. Be careful of who you choose to share your life with and make sure your wants and desires are led by God instead of just physical attributes. Learn to be patient when choosing a partner and focus on the right attributes. Using the brief excitement of physical intimacy as a judge of how suitable a mate is will only lead to disappointment in the end. It is never too late to start using this principle in your dealings with the opposite sex. Some soul ties are extremely difficult to break so please think twice before you make the decision to create a new one.
And Remember, Be yourself, because everyone else is taken.